What To Say When You Rematch On Bumble?

Whether it’s due to busy schedules, lack of chemistry, or any other reason, sometimes conversations on dating apps like Bumble can fizzle out before they get going. 

But what happens when you match with someone again after the initial conversation didn’t go anywhere? 

How do you reignite the conversation and make the most of the second chance?

In this post, I will discuss with you how rematch works on Bumble and what to say.

Understanding How Rematch Works on Bumble

Before we dive into what to say when you rematch on Bumble, let’s first understand what a rematch is and how it works.

When you match with someone on Bumble, you have 24 hours to start a conversation with them. 

If you don’t initiate a conversation within that time frame, the match expires, and you’re no longer able to communicate with that person.

For a conversation that hasn’t begun, you could always extend the chat. This is most likely something done by men since the “extend” feature is only available when a conversation expires and there is no chat before – of course, women are the only authorized people to start conversations on Bumble.

Now, if there has been at least a single conversation, you won’t be able to extend the chat when it expires.

This is where the rematch feature comes in.

Bumble offers a feature called “Rematch,” which allows you to reconnect with expired matches, even after there has been a mutual conversation in the past. 

To use this feature, you’ll need a Bumble Boost subscription. 

Once you have a subscription, you can access your expired matches and choose to rematch with someone who you previously matched with but didn’t communicate with.

When you rematch with someone, they’ll receive a notification that you’ve requested a rematch. 

If they accept, you’ll have the opportunity to start a new conversation and give things another shot. 

However, It’s important to note that a rematch on Bumble doesn’t guarantee that things will work out differently than they did the first time. 

It’s possible that the person you rematch with may not be interested in starting a conversation again, or they may not respond to your message. 

If you do get a response, it’s important to approach the conversation with an open mind and a positive attitude.

However, here are a few tips to keep in mind when using the rematch feature on Bumble:

• Use it selectively: Don’t rematch with every expired match you have.  Instead, choose the ones that you were particularly interested in but didn’t get a chance to talk to the first time around.

• Be respectful: If someone declines your rematch request, respect their decision, and don’t continue to message them. They may have a valid reason for not wanting to talk to you again.

• Start with a clean slate: When you rematch with someone, don’t dwell on the past or bring up the previous conversation. 

You can even approach the conversation as if it’s a brand-new match and start fresh. This is the reason why you’d want to know what exactly to say when you rematch – this leads us to the topic of the day.

What To Say When You Rematch On Bumble?

You’ve decided to give it another shot with someone you’ve previously matched with on Bumble. 

Congratulations! 

Now, it’s time to start the conversation again. 

But what should you say to ensure that the conversation doesn’t fizzle out like it did last time?

First and foremost, it’s essential to acknowledge the previous conversation that you had with your match. 

This shows that you remember them and the conversation you had, and it will make them feel special. 

It also allows you to mention something that you may have left out in your previous conversation or elaborate on a topic that you discussed briefly.

Here are some examples of how you can acknowledge the previous conversation and restart the conversation:

• “Hey there! I remember we talked about your favorite hiking trails last time we matched. Have you been on any good hikes recently?” Sorry about letting the last match fizzle out, didn’t even know a match could expire.

You can see what we did here. First, we started with a good conversation starter and then went on to acknowledge our bad actions for letting the match expire.

• “It’s great to see that we matched again.” My bad for letting the match expire. This week has been hell for me.

Depending on the reason why the chat got expired, this works also.

But again, the point here is to acknowledge the reason the chat got expired.

• I had a great time chatting with you last time, especially when we talked about your travels. Didn’t know chats do expire here. Do you have any upcoming trips planned?”

The tip above is not to come up with a “Hey” type of chat from the person’s view but with a more serious talk. Then you go at the end to acknowledge the fact that you were the reason the last chat expired.

By acknowledging the previous conversation, you’re not only showing that you’re interested in them, but you’re also reminding them of the positive aspects of the previous conversation. 

This can help jumpstart the conversation and make it more comfortable for both parties.

Another approach you can take is to ask them something new and interesting that you didn’t cover in your previous conversation. 

For example:

• “Hey, I was just wondering, have you tried any new restaurants in the area lately? I’m always on the lookout for some delicious food spots!”

• “I don’t think we talked about this last time, but do you have any favorite books or authors? I’m looking for some new recommendations!”

Asking open-ended questions like these not only shows that you’re interested in learning more about them, but it also opens up the possibility for a more extended and engaging conversation.

Note, however, you should have already said something like a greeting (like we did earlier), before going on to start a conversation. Otherwise, it may look like you were never interested in the previous conversations.

Common Mistakes To Avoid When You Rematch With Someone On Bumble

Reconnecting with someone on Bumble can be an exciting opportunity to try again with someone you were previously interested in. 

However, it’s important to approach the rematch with caution and avoid some common mistakes that could sabotage your chances of success.

Here are some mistakes to avoid when you rematch with someone on Bumble:

• Being the guy that doesn’t reply: As in most cases, the reason for expired chats on Bumble is a result of late responses, and not necessarily dislike. Even worst is when you don’t reply. If you’d want to rematch with someone on Bumble, then you should be willing to put in the work and respond in time.
• Being too eager: While it’s natural to be excited about a rematch, being too eager can come across as desperate and unattractive. Avoid bombarding the person with multiple messages or coming on too strong. Just take your time and let the conversation flow naturally. This is the reason why most people feel rematch-ing on Bumble is weird.

• Using the same approach: If your initial conversation with the person didn’t go well, it’s important to try a different approach when you rematch. Don’t use the same pickup line or conversation starter that didn’t work the first time around. Or come up with something new and unique to grab their attention.

• Sending generic messages: Avoid sending generic messages like “Hey, how’s it going?” or “What are you up to?” These types of messages are unoriginal and don’t provide any value to the conversation. You can try to come up with something more interesting and engaging that will encourage the person to respond.

• Being rude or aggressive: It’s never acceptable to be rude or aggressive when you’re trying to start a conversation with someone, whether it’s a rematch or a new match. Do not use offensive language or make inappropriate comments. These behaviors will only turn the person off and decrease your chances of success.

Conclusion

Rematching with someone on Bumble can be a great way to give a missed connection a second chance. 

By understanding how the rematch feature works, knowing what to say, and avoiding common mistakes, you can increase your chances of success.