Is Superswipe Creepy? (Here’s our take)

If you’ve dabbled into online dating, you’ve probably heard of Bumble, and if you’re a bit more acquainted with the app, you’ve likely come across the term “SuperSwipe.”

Whether you’ve used it or not, let’s take a minute to understand what it truly means to SuperSwipe someone and address whether it’s creepy or not.

Understanding How SuperSwipe Works on Bumble

SuperSwipe is one of Bumble’s premium features, and its main purpose is to signify a heightened level of interest in another user.

While the standard ‘swipe right’ tells someone you like them, the SuperSwipe takes this a notch higher by saying, “I’m really into you.”

To SuperSwipe someone, you’ll need to spot the yellow badge with a white heart on their profile and tap on it to send a SuperSwipe.

Now, because it’s a premium feature, you’ll need Bumble Coins, the app’s in-house currency.

This might prompt you to think, “Is this person worth spending my coins on?” Or even worst “is this not just creepy?” Let’s take a better look at this in the next section.

Is Superswipe Creepy?

Well, it’s a question that doesn’t necessarily have a straightforward answer. People’s opinions vary greatly, depending on their experiences and perspectives.

Generally, the superswipe isn’t anywhere creepy as some extremist tag it. It’s not a bad feature if used properly.

Personally, I’m yet to find someone who’d receive Superswipe and get angry or find it creepy. The key point is to use it properly

You don’t want to use it for every profile you come across on the app — this is when it could be seen as being creepy.

Others, however, see it in a slightly different light.

They find the whole “concept: a bit too forward, especially since online dating already involves a degree of vulnerability.

Being able to essentially “pay” for someone’s attention might come off as a tad aggressive for some people.

However, It’s a delicate balance, and what works for one person might not necessarily work for another.

If you’re considering using SuperSwipe, think about what you’re comfortable with. Just because it’s a feature offered by Bumble doesn’t mean it’s for everyone.

Ask yourself, “Am I okay with being this upfront about my interest?” Also, consider the person you’re planning to SuperSwipe – how well do you know their preferences and boundaries?

There are times when being bold and taking a chance can pay off, and times when it might be better to play it cool and stick with the regular ‘swipe right’ approach.

It really comes down to your individual dating style and the context of the situation.

Related: Is Swiping Right at Everyone on Bumble a Good Strategy?

When to use the SuperSwipe on Bumble?

Okay, so now that we’ve got the basics of SuperSwipe down, let’s delve into the strategy of it all.

How do you know when it’s the right moment to use it? I mean, it’s not like you’d SuperSwipe everyone, right? Of course, you can’t undo a SuperSwipe.

Here’s a guide on identifying those apt moments.

A good rule of thumb is to use it when a profile genuinely resonates with you.

Perhaps you share unique hobbies, have similar life goals, or there’s just something about their bio or photos that genuinely piques your interest.

Since SuperSwipes are a premium feature (remember, they cost Bumble coins), it’s wise to use them judiciously.

If you’re on a limited budget, save your SuperSwipes for those profiles that genuinely intrigue you.

Maybe it’s someone who’s an avid fan of that niche band you love or someone who shares your passion for mountain climbing. These shared interests can provide excellent conversation starters and lay the foundation for a deeper connection.

Another factor to consider is timing.

Are you looking for more meaningful connections? If you’re currently in a phase where you’re seeking genuine relationships or deeper conversations, then SuperSwipe can be a useful tool to signal your serious interest.

On the flip side, if you’re in a more casual swiping mood or just exploring the app without a specific intention, you might want to hold off on using it.

Lastly, let’s touch upon intuition.

Sometimes, it’s just a gut feeling. If you come across a profile and something inside tells you, “I really want to connect with this person,” then go ahead and use that SuperSwipe. Trusting your instincts is a big part of the online dating experience.

Conclusion

Whether SuperSwipe is creepy or not is subjective. It depends on the users involved, their level of comfort, and their personal boundaries.

The bottom line is that you should use SuperSwipe, or any other feature, in a way that aligns with your values and the level of connection you seek.

Most importantly, keep the conversation open, respect boundaries, and enjoy the journey of meeting new people.